Kirkus Reviews
“A detailed, telling account of growing up around addiction.”
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Burton’s memoir chronicles life with an alcoholic father and other family turmoil.
The author takes the reader to Texas in the 1950s—his family’s history in the state dates back to when his forebears settled there in the 1800s. The memoir focuses on Burton’s relationship with his parents, particularly his father Howard. As he tells the reader early on, “I’m a child of an alcoholic who suffered in silence for decades, and now I’m sharing my story in the hopes it will help others.” Although the author went on to become a public relations executive and have a family of his own, he had many childhood difficulties to sort through. Howard had been involved in some harrowing combat in World War II. When he returned to the states after the war, he could often be “charismatic and well-liked,” but he developed problems with alcohol and gambling (not to mention violent outbursts at home). At one point, Howard was committed to a psychiatric hospital to be treated for addiction, though this seemed to have had little lasting effect. In Burton’s adult life, he has suffered from panic attacks and other problems he attributes to his rocky upbringing. The work dives into some surprising material, including an anecdote in which his father stole a safe from a local supermarket, a fact that was apparently an “open secret in Garland.” There are also Howard’s personal connections, thanks to his gambling problem, to famous names from the seedier side of Dallas, like Jack Ruby. While some of the author’s advice to the reader is to be expected, such as, “Never take life for granted. Never waste a day. Never let pass the opportunity to tell the one you love how much they mean to you,” they are words that have clearly been hard-won. The memoir allows the reader to vividly imagine what it was like to live amongst such domestic strife in a bygone era.
A detailed, telling account of growing up around addiction.
